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What's so bad about porn anyway?

Posted by on Jun. 18, 2013 at 2:17 PM
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 Okay, I get that some guys may have an addiction to porn and addiction is always a bad thing, but if the guy isn't addicted, why is porn such an issue? Why not join the fun?

 
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by on Jun. 18, 2013 at 2:17 PM
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momto3infl
by on Jun. 18, 2013 at 2:22 PM

 IDK I dont see an issue if  my DH wants to watch it.

Anryan
by Platinum Member on Jun. 18, 2013 at 2:30 PM
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i agree.  Porn is, well just porn...Men are visual, they like it....women (tho most deny it) indulge in porn more than men when you take into account romance novels etc.

GoddessStaggs
by on Jun. 18, 2013 at 2:39 PM
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i watch it! lol you can tell there is a huge diffrence in style from my stack and dh's. lol. the only people i nkow personaly that sdont like it are those who havent explored it to find the kind that suits them best and religous personal

la_bella_vita
by Bella on Jun. 18, 2013 at 2:49 PM
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 I have no issue with porn and porn has no effect on our marriage. It's a none issue.

supercarp
by on Jun. 18, 2013 at 2:50 PM
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The people being exploited are harmed, even if they don't realize it right away. It takes away their self esteem. They are less after they do this. If it didn't, we'd be going nude all the time and no one would worry about being raped.

RheaF
by Silver Member on Jun. 18, 2013 at 2:57 PM
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 Simply put, it goes against my beliefs. I personally believe porn falls under the "lusting in your heart/eyes" category, which is a form of cheating. Thankfully DH agrees with me, so it is no longer an issue.

***This is how "I" feel in response to the OP's question. Of course I cannot control how any of you feel about porn, and I do not judge your choices.***

Beautiful31mom
by on Jun. 18, 2013 at 3:03 PM
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Porn has no place in our home, I do not care what others do but my husband and I both do not want it in our home.

BannerElkHogans
by Bronze Member on Jun. 18, 2013 at 3:08 PM
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Amen to ANRYAN about the erotic Romance novels......I'm guilty as hell........ha ha ha ha ha

MrsLondon
by Bronze Member on Jun. 18, 2013 at 3:44 PM

I personally think it's a gateway to other sexually deviant behaviour. Especially in those already prone to doing those things. It's the whole reason why most sex offenders are not supposed to access the internet or watch porn according to their probation. It enhances the urges that they already feel. A child molester is only going to watch so much child pornography before he finds his own victim. And the same goes for a rapist. That's my opinion.

MomToovey
by Marianne on Jun. 18, 2013 at 3:59 PM

 I personally don't see a problem. What I've kind of gathered from here, is that women who are already dealing with insecurities are made to feel even less desireable when they find their man is getting off to someone other than her. I get it, but I'm confident in my body and know that my DH only has eyes for me.

Sometimes we'll watch it together, but I prefer not to have an audience when I watch. We usually only watch when I'm on my period and we're not having sex that week.

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