FOLLOW-UP POST TO DEALING WITH INFIDELITY FOR 11 YEARS (PLEASE READ)
Ok guys, you all have expressed your opnions, concerns and thoughts on my situation and I would like to say thank you. I read every last one and I felt that they were giving me the strength and support that I needed. I decided to leave him for good yesterday. I DO NOT want my daughters thinking this is ok, I DO NOT want my son treating women that way, and I DO NOT want to cry and feel sorry for myself any longer. Now what? How do I go about getting back to me, getting my life back and finding myself and my happiness. I was just 16 when I fell in love, and I still feel stuck in those ages. I don't associate with many people at all. It's just me and my children; who I do love dearly and they give me the motherly love that I need. But for those of you that have dealt with a break up, how did you get over it, what did you do afterwards? People say you supposed to get out and do things but do what kind of things?