I am currenlty planning my wedding and I've gone over about 50 drafts of the guest list.
My df and I are paying for it on our own, and needless to say, with two babies in diapers, we're not rolling in money, so our budge is tight. I just wanted to go to the justice of the peace but he wants a nice wedding, because he says I deserve to be a princess :)
To the point. The caterer we decided on is expensive and we can really only pay for about 50 people to attend the wedding. I have a large family on my Dad's side, and I don't speak to most of them, for various differences that no one ever talks about. I am inviting my paternal grandmother, but no one else from that side.
I know it's gonna create some tension, more tension I should say. How should I handle the crap that's gonna come?