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Who usually initiates?

Posted by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:46 PM
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Sex?
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:46 PM
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CJsMommy92
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:47 PM

My husband enjoys it more if he starts it so I mostly let him

Blue231
by Member on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:51 PM
It used to be me. Now it's more often Dh. It depends on the year and what we each have going on in our lives.
BonitaM
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:26 AM
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I used to but now he does just as much as me. :)

GarysWife1991
by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 9:21 AM

 It depends when it is.  Usually in the mornings he will initiate it but other times one of us will just give the other a look and that's all it takes.  Dh's sex drive is as high as mine so it doesn't take much.

larabear1
by Bronze Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 10:51 AM
Me usually and he usually only gets so far before he claims be tired. Which I don't doubt because he's a hard worker. But one can only be rejected so many times. So, I've stopped trying, just to see how long he'll go without sex. Today is day 13. :/
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Raeann11
by Silver Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 12:14 PM

I have no clue, I would say about the same.

NDADanceMom
by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 12:19 PM
Its hard to say. When he spoons me at night i can tell he is ready to go. If i just want to kiss, he doesn't push for more. If i want to go to bed we go to bed. He lets me take the lead but i always can tell when he is interested. Its a rare night when i am not interested too!
Krysden
by Platinum Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 12:25 PM

him

pittymama
by Silver Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 12:29 PM

DH, for sure

earthangel1967
by YVONNE on Jul. 4, 2013 at 1:52 PM
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 I think it's almost equal, we both  do frequently but if I HAVE to pick one of us then I would say him ONLY because he has a sleeping disorder (its actually a real sleeping disorder not a joke lol) called sexsomnia where he will sometimes start having sex with me in the middle of the night and when he starts he is still SOUND asleep but a little ways into it the actions and feelings wake him up and then  we just have fun. We both LOVE his sleeping disorder lol

 YVONNE

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