OK so I went through my husbands cell the other day, mainly emails and found some sites that he had been on. They were all porn sites. NO shocker there, but what did shock me is that he is not looking at the free porn sites, he is looking at the ones you have to pay for! Basically cam models. IM PISSSED!!! I know I was wrong for snooping but what is wrong with the free sites? Why does he have to go to the paid sites? Between the two sites he has spent over 200 dollars in the last month! That is money that could go to the boys, gas in the car, or groceries for the house!!!!
I want to confront him with it but I dont know how to with out letting him know I was snooping. THe card that he used is prepaid so there is no statement. Im just lost and hurt. Im not a bad looking person and i just dont know why he needs to see other women naked.
I confronted him yesterday via text message and he acted like it was no big deal!!!!! I was even more pissed. He said that I should have never went through his phone because I DONT ALLOW him to go through mine. He never trys to go through mine, nor does he ask to. If he did I would gladly hand it over to him!!! So when he got home i handed him my phone so that he could go through it but he didnt want to and he sat on the couch and changed everything i suppose on his phone and said, "there its all taken care of! "
Im so over this!!!!
Ok so I thought that the other day when I confronted him about what I had found and he said that it was all taken care of that he had changed passwords and everything on his phone. I was wrong! I went through emails and found yet ANOTHER site!!! Of course I had to check it out since the email said nothing about him adding funds I was thinking that maybe it was an actual free site that you had to sign up for. Nope its a paid site, he just hasnt added funds to it YET! I tried going through the site under his name last night and you cant do ANYTHING untill funds are added. I will definately be keeping my eye out on this site to see if he adds funds!!!Update 3 I looked through his phone once again and there was ANOTHER site where he paid to see some woman get naked!!! He only spent 5 dollars for 8 minutes but its the principal that annoys and hurts me. The other day he wouldn't buy a 7 dollar book for our son that he uses in therapy but it was ok that very day to buy a 20 dollar video game and then spend 5 dollars on that internet whore last night! So this morning, I took DHs debit card and went and bought the book for DS and also treated DS and myself to lunch!!! I thinks that's fair!