of KNOWING each other? I'm not talking about dating for 3 months. Heck, I'm not even taking about he's a friend of a friend or you have seen him around. I'm talking about being complete strangers, no form of reference at all. My best friend did and she has a rocky marriage. Mainly, because he is an ass. My sister did the same and her marriage ended after 8 yrs.
If you did, how long did it last or how long have you been married?