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If you have a great marriage...Why?

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 We were out with another couple on Saturday night and they asked us why we seem to have such a great marriage.  When dh and I got home we were listing all the things that we think has made our relationship great.  Here's our top 5, What are yours?

1.  We talk

2.  We trust

3.  We put each other first

4.  We balance each other out

5.  We have sex almost daily.

Claire Mom of two teens and one love

by on Jul. 22, 2013 at 5:04 AM
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by on Jul. 22, 2013 at 7:55 PM
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We're open and honest about everything. We're best friends and talk through our issues more than we fight about them. We spend time together, don't call names, don't assign blame, and have cute inside jokes. 

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by Ruby Member on Jul. 22, 2013 at 8:10 PM

Quoting blessedmommie07:

1) We communicate

2) We compromise and don't sweat the small stuff

3) We have faith, trust and respect for each other

4) We forgive and move past anger

5) We make our marriage a priority and always try to improve it

6) We support one another

7) We try and maintain a healthy sex life

8) Make time for "us" without the kids

9) Love each other unconditionally

10) And really listen and try to understand each other's feelings
by on Jul. 22, 2013 at 8:13 PM
1. We are honest and respectful
2. We communicate well and forgive easily
3. We enjoy life and have similar values
4. We both are faithful and are willing to work at our relationship.
5. We are sexually compatible ( I would like it a little more, but I finally realize that sex doesn't make or break a relationship. It's a great extra)
by on Jul. 22, 2013 at 10:34 PM

Just about the same as yours...(except #5)...and we say "I love you" often!!  We've also started doing a lot better about taking "us" time (going for an evening walk just the two of us, etc.) and "mixing things up" a bit when it comes to intimacy.

by Silver Member on Jul. 22, 2013 at 11:49 PM
We are really working in it. I would say that it is all in the communication. If you communicate and respect one another everything else will fall into place

by on Jul. 22, 2013 at 11:56 PM

yep.. you pretty much got it all.

by on Jul. 23, 2013 at 12:26 AM

respect our differences---we are best friends---lots of hugs---we talk to each other about everything----we take time every day for us time. He is the best thing that ever happened to me.

by on Jul. 23, 2013 at 1:20 PM

We put God first in our relationship

we respect each other

we spend time together

we trust each other

we communicate

we make love often

we share all the responsibilites

we love unconditionally

we support each other

So blessed with my life.....
Sunday at 6:56 PM
by on Jul. 23, 2013 at 1:21 PM
Communication, put our marriage first.
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by on Jul. 23, 2013 at 1:32 PM
1. Always put the other first
2. Always making sure the other ones' needs are being met
3. Always talking
4. No secrets ever
5. Have fun! We love doing things and going on dates :)
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