So things have gotten REALLY unfair with the kids, and with sharing the workload, and some other things like that.
So I of course tried talking to my husband about it. He does this thing where he listens for about two minutes and then says whatever he needs to so I will shut up. Then I have to wait a day or two to see if the message I sent went through to him or not..
..well, it hasn't. Any of the times I've talked to him. I've tried every different approach including making it all out to be my fault and its just not working.
I know eventually I will get through to him and in the meantime I can handle things. The thing is.. I am just sick of talking to him about the same thing over and over. This literally happens EVERY time there is something we need to talk about. I mean, when he tells me something that's bugging him, the conversation is over in 5 minutes and its not a problem anymore.
When I try talking to him it will take a month or longer to get some action from him.. He's not dumb. He's not lazy. He's not a bad guy. Idk why we have to do this every time.. All I know is right now I literally feel like shutting down. Just go about my day, everyday and just not talk to him at all unless I have to. It's like I'm just overly exhausted.
I'm not the type to "teach him a lesson" or "put him in my shoes" or anything like that. To me, that kinda stuff is mean and pointless. All I want, is for him to grasp the concepts I am sharing faster..
Actually all I want right now is a hot bath and some peace and quiet. I give up..