Well I don't know if I'm going to get to talk to him about it anytime soon. They went to the store. When they came home they stayed outside and never came in and when he finally came in it was to tell me he was leaving again to help his cousin mo e furniture. Did I mention we only have my 3 year old tonight? The other three are visiting else where for the moment. I will update when I actually get to talk to him. =(
He walked in just as I went for the door knob.... I loaded me, the baby, and our bag up and he managed to talk me down in the car window. I told him he has the next 30 days to get it together. I'm tired of the secondary person he becomes at random and today was the worst. We talked about a couple of other issues. Pray things change. He will be out of town a lot this month. Maybe he needs it to work on whatever it is that caused his words to spew out stupid today. I think I need some time to work on me too. I still feel messy though. I'm just still blown away that he said that to me. He says it was a joke. Hopefully the feeling it left leaves soon.
Edit to add:
Dh is not cheating. I whole heartedly trust him when he said explained his idiocy last night. My senses aren't sounding off like they normally would have done. There is more going on in our relationship but the rest revolves around things concerning financial immaturity. I know where all of it goes though so its not like he's hiding it. I have calmed down and believe him when he says he won't speak to me like that anymore or act like that around his friend with me anymore. Believe me ladies when I say I have been in some doozies for relationships and I can read a liar among other things. I am definitely his one and only. I do appreciate the support from all of you.