I found out a couple of weeks after having my son my husband had been cheating while i was pregnant. he confessed, told me it will never happen again he loved us and will do anything to fix it. I forgave him, over time. I came across his emails yesterday and he never lost contact with her. they were still together, she knew about us, he believed for months she was pregnant (she lied) hes in the military he was telling me hes away for work but really with her. i cant think straight. i cant believe this! he said he loves me will go to counselling, whatever it takes. he wont contact her. i just dont think i have the strength anymore. please help!!