My husband tells me a lot to leave, go, he will leave, or why dont we just split up. He tells me he hates me or parts of me, then he comes back saying its not true that he really loves me. We have had trouble in the past with his family and that has caused some major issues with us. I don't know what to do, I don't know who I am any more. I love him but for most of our marriage I just haven been in love with him. I'm not sure if counseling is an option or not, any advice?
A few of you ladies asked for background info, so here it goes. His family has treated mr terrible, called me names and encouraged my husband to divorce me. My dd1 is my daughter from before my marriage and my husband has chosen to raise her as his own. This has caused so issues with his family because we don't want the word step used. They don't agree with how we live as they are super religious. It's been everything from threats made to me to never seeing our children. The latest thing his mom said to him was she would never come to see him again and if he died no one would be here. The only problems we have ever have or fought about has been them. At christmas he threaten to divorce me over them, I think the problems with his family has him pulled in different ways.