Now me and SO have a home that we own, 2 cars .. He has a great job that pays very well and has been at this company for 7yrs. Were a great team, he loves the boys and they love him- they actually think he is their dad.
The problem is the ex will not sign over his rights, why? I dont know since clearly he doesnt want anything to do with them. We would like to get a lawyer and take him to court to fight for his rights. I know this is hard to do and i know that me and SO will need to be married before a judge would ever allow him to adopt.
My question is does anyone have any experience with this?? Or any advice.. I know it will be a long process- i just wan to make sure we come at it 2000%