So, DH said his ex's mom is really bad and he will need to go to the funeral (even though he never liked her). Is this what you do? Will I be expected to fly to my ex husbands mom's funeral when she passes away? I can see in the same town both of us stopping at visitation but I don't see that he should go to the funeral and be all around all that when it happens. He isn't part of their life anymore. Also, DH thinks you list all your ex's in the obituary when somebody passes. I've never read about ex wives in an obit?!