I don't think DH would ever cheat on me. But for the last few months when he comes home from work he locks himself in the bathroom for 2 hours with his phone and smokes. We used to have sex 1-2 times a week now I'm lucky if it's once a week. Usually when he gets called into work early he leaves at 1230 am and lately he's been leaving at 1115-1130 pm. I picked up his clothes this morning to get them washed and smelt something. So I brought each item closer to figure out what the smell is. His boxers and pants smell like a womens crotch after sex. Mind you the last time we had sex was last week monday. He's been really short with me the last couple of days as well and I thought it was just from stress which is normally what he does when he is stressed, i've learned to deal with it. I'm shaking while sitting here thinking that DH is sleeping with someone else. There isn't any weird numbers on the phone bill, i've matched all the numbers to friends of ours that are guys and to people at work he has to talk to while at work and they are all guys. DH always says no women is worth losing me or his kids. I hate thinking that he is. Could I be over reacting? Or do you think he could be sleeping with someone else? I'm going to confront him when he gets home today and tell him what I fear. If he is in fact cheating I will break. Him and the kids are everything to me and I'm already in a state of depression. Please help me and please be kind.