See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Since i had my youngest daughter, ill admit, i let myself go. I'm usually to busy running arounf like a chicken with my head cut off trying to keep up with the kids and chores and whatever else needs done, to care about what i look like while im doing it.
Well my daughter is almost 11 months old now, saturday my hubby wanted to do some shopping. My DS was at his dads for the weekend and for the first time in months my DH had the whole weekend off. I decided to make the day better, i would accually get dressed and do my hair and makeup. even though we were just going to walmart and the flea market lol, i wore skinny jeans with cute yellow heals, a cute top and my white dress jacket. it was casual/dressy. I knew my DH would appreciate it!!
As we were just about to leave, the day got even better. My mom showed up, and since she was already here and we wanted to go, she agreed to stay and watch DD!!! Okay, now this never happens. It has been TWO years since we have left the house TOGETHER with NO KIDS!!!
We had a great time. We accually got to hold hands, and were kissing in the isles like teenagers. It had been sooo long since we were able to be this close without someone getting pooped, peed, or barfed on by one of the little munchkins in cute disquises.
We were both in the mood when we got home ;)
After my mom had left, and got DD down for bed, i went to take a shower to put pjs on to cuddle up and watch a movie, and start "Mommy/Daddy time"
STUPID FRACKING FREAKING DAMN MOTHER NATURE YOU DIRTY WHORE
I had started my damn period.
I hadnt had my period in 2 months because of my BC, and it chooses NOW to start!?!
Well that ruined the mood for me. I got tierd and passed out. Then the next morning hes mad at me because we didnt have sex. We never have sex on my period, we both just find it hard to get in the mood with all the extra mess. So how was i supposed to know that night was diffrent? He didnt attempt to make a move after i told him, so i assumed the same as always!! Well it is now almost thursday and we cant be in the same room togther more than 5 mins without arguing about something!!! I'm guessing all the pint up sexual tension. its annoying. I kind of want to punch my vagina. And my period usually lasts 2-3 weeks at a time because this stupid BC.
Thankfully Friday DHis getting a vasectomy. (maybe another reason for all the hostillity?) So i can get this BC taken out soon and go back to being a normal bleeding person.