See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
I have no degree, I failed out of college because I was naive before marriage. After marriage, I dropped out a 2nd time because I had no support from husband after our fist baby. I am 28, we have 3 kids, can't afford childcare so I stay home, and we can't pay our bills. my mom and sisters offered to watch my kids for free, feed us, and house us for free if i am able to go to WA for school. they can't come our here and we can't afford me to go to college on our own. My husband side of the family disagrees but won't help out. And my husband obviously hates the idea and threatened divorce and harm to himself and said in stupid and am punishing him and will fail.. I understand his want to be around the kids, but if the roles were switched I would heartachingly do what it took to better our future for our family. Do you agree, disagree? Why?
***Thanks for the support, I was originally expecting to get lashings for this idea. I have come to realize that I need to stand up for my children and there future because they are just too young and need that strength.
****I realized I internalize accusations people tell me as truth and i need to stand up for myself and think independently from my husband. His latest? I'm "mentally ill" and he "is genuinely concerned". I'm not ill. Mentally ill people don't have a 4 year plan, or think about the security of their family, or go to great measurements to ensure the kids get facetime with their dad. no no no, not "ill", creative and out of the box, but not ill.
Thanks again to all. :-)