The last time he called me a name, I countered with an equally offensive one. He looked a little stunned for a minute, then just got more angry, which resulted in him calling me another name, which I once again countered. Long story short, the name calling doesn't help anything.
lolI think it was last week or maybe the week before that. I asked him why he had to be such a f***ing asshole to me all the time. I can't remember what I was mad at him for.
I can honestly say, I've never called him a name (to his face) I've called him names to my friend or my mother when I'm mad but I don't say it to him.
I dread becoming the parents I had growing up. One thing I always told myself is I'd never cuss, belittle my husband. He's never cussed at me. I can't even remember if I've ever called him anything. In the heat of the moment I can understand how something will slip though:)
Neither one of us find it productive to name call, so we don't. This is a 2nd marriage for both of us, so we kinda know this time around, what devastates a relationship and what doesn't. Name calling can only make things worse between spouses.
I think I called him a butt...,I don't do name calling very often.....
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