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Sexy or a turn off?

Posted by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 7:33 PM
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I'm 33 weeks pregnant and last night dh was being frisky. He kneeled on the floor next to me (on the couch) and started rubbing my big belly, "so if i rub the big Buddha belly will i get lucky?"
All i heard was "your belly is huge!" LOL
by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 7:33 PM
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Fayanne
by Gold Member on Sep. 30, 2013 at 7:43 PM
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 awww... sounds cute to me!

CookiePwnz
by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 7:49 PM
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Hahah I'd laugh but I'd be like "Thanks for telling me I'm a whale"

hburnette3
by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 7:51 PM
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I wouldn't be offended. ( I'd act like it though.)

I have a feeling that was one of those times when hubbies speak BEFORE they think!

MrsHayward1
by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 7:57 PM

aww 

Spamelton
by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 8:05 PM
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It sounds like he was being really sweet - but unfortunately since I'm pregnant right now too, I'd have heard the same thing you did if my hubby said that to me. :)   Hormones suck, especially for the poor men!

AiLi
by Member on Sep. 30, 2013 at 8:37 PM
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When I was pregnant,  I just started laughing when my husband would say things like that. 

earthangel1967
by YVONNE on Oct. 1, 2013 at 4:39 AM

 I think you  took it that way because we are all more hormonal and sensitive and emotional when we are pregnant and a lot of us are self conscious  about our bodies especially during that time,

BUT

from the way you described it, I honestly don't believe he meant it that way or as an insult at all, it sounds like he meant it affectionately and finds you desirable belly or not. HUGS

 YVONNE



Kfdmrw9312
by on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:15 AM

EWW, ok, yea, just the phrase alone sounds completely dorky and wierd, LOL, if only you just saw my face as I read this, lol, uhhhh, yea, I would be shutting him down with those kind of lame lines.

2lilmamas
by on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:44 AM
I dont he means in a mean way. Kind of sweet.
tifbrown
by on Oct. 1, 2013 at 9:46 AM
At 33 weeks I would hope you have a huge belly, means baby is growing. He was just playing around, don't let it get to you.
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