Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Love & Marriage Love & Marriage

Have you ever suspected him of faking an orgasm?

Posted by on Oct. 3, 2013 at 9:15 AM
  • 55 Replies

I've seen a lot of discussion about this online lately and then experienced something that made me question whether maybe my husband faked it with me. My husband has high blood pressure and takes meds to regulate that, meds which caused some erectile dysfunction for him. It's such a source of pride/ego for him that he stopped having sex with me for weeks on end because he didn't want to tell me about the ED.

After a long talk, he saw his doc, had his meds adjusted, and we got back on track. But lately he's been doing the avoidance thing again and the other night, it seemed he was having trouble getting there for real and I think he faked it. I don't know how to broach the subject, however, because it took so much to get him to open up about the ED in the first place. 

Have you ever suspected your man of faking an orgasm with you? What did/would you do if you thought that was the case? 



by on Oct. 3, 2013 at 9:15 AM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
BonitaM
by Platinum Member on Oct. 3, 2013 at 9:38 AM
2 moms liked this

No, but he has admitted to faking it before.  I don't think it's that big a deal....women fake it so why can't men?

xoxRachelxox
by on Oct. 3, 2013 at 12:18 PM
2 moms liked this

Honestly I think the best way to discuss hard things, is to just bring them up. 

LadyBast
by Brenda on Oct. 3, 2013 at 1:02 PM
4 moms liked this

No and not sure how he could, you can explain that one to me LOL....

RileysMommy2315
by on Oct. 3, 2013 at 1:30 PM

I've never suspected it, but he has admitted to doing it...a lot.
He says he does it to spare my feelings, so I don't think I'm doing something wrong.

I've faked them before, only because it's very hard for me to achieve one, so I wasn't mad or anything.
We just talked it out, and everything was fine. :)

MagicTemptation
by Christina on Oct. 3, 2013 at 1:56 PM

I'm with you. I googled it after reading this and am still dumbfounded. I know there is dry orgams, but I don't think it pertains to this.


Quoting LadyBast:


No and not sure how he could, you can explain that one to me LOL....


AlannaMaria
by Alanna on Oct. 3, 2013 at 1:57 PM
2 moms liked this

How does a guy fake an orgasm? I'm almost positive my DH has never faked one.. 

cocoa132
by Member on Oct. 3, 2013 at 2:00 PM
3 moms liked this

No you can kinda tell he had a orgasm after sex. If you know what I mean.

applesgalore
by Member on Oct. 3, 2013 at 2:10 PM
I think I would be able to tell. Always seems to be signs he didnt fake it, but if he did i hope we would be able to talk about it and work with it
awesomemommy2
by on Oct. 3, 2013 at 2:14 PM

Maybe if you were a condom user or he pulls out and cums in a towel or something.   

createive
by Bronze Member on Oct. 3, 2013 at 5:26 PM
1 mom liked this
I read up on this too because my DH's O is very "subtle". He's not vocal either. So I don't really know if he has sometimes.

Seems as if men can and men do fake it more than we would believe.

Both of us have difficult time so I understand someone doing it, but I don't.

I don't think he would fake it because I know he enjoys it without having one.

My DH also has ED and it's a sensitive subject for him too.
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)