It started me thinking of my grandfather who had been with my grandmother for like twenty plus years. He isn't my moms real dad but that isn't a real big issue. Anywho my grandfather started dating this lady a few months after my grandma passed on. No one liked her and it could have been my grandmother passing was fresh for everyone. She told us she loved my grandfather but because everyone was stand offish with her my grandfather stopped dating her. Which leads to my question
What is a good time to date after your spouse passes on and does the amount of time change as you get older?