Yep, I said I would never, but, well. My son gave me permission to finally leave. My husband was OMG verbally abusive, and then physically and it would go in spurts, back and forth great married life, making plans having a blast really being in love, and then another abusive spurt. I tried everything under the sun to save my marriage, I just couldn't do it anymore. my son laid on the couch next to his dad, and said "I don't want you and mommy to live together anymore, you're mean to mommy, you hurt her and you don't love her, so no more"...my son is 5.
Now, I started accepting it for what it what was long ago, and have healed as much as one can. My question is, when is it okay to move on? To maybe date again? Is there an acceptable time frame? AND, who in the world is going to want a single mom of 3 kids?
on Oct. 6, 2013 at 7:05 PM