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Would you cheat on your DH?

Posted by on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:25 PM
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There is a big time lack of sex in our marriage. I love my husband and I think he loves me but I fantasize about cheating just for the sex, not for anything else. I would never leave my DH and I'm sure I would never actually cheat, but I'm curious if anyone would if they were in a similar situation?

by on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:25 PM
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goddiddlyumshis
by on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:26 PM
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Hell no!
There is never any excuse good enough to cheat.

Thankfully I'm seriously attracted to my husband (and visa versa) and we have a great sex life.
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lucky2Beeme
by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:26 PM
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No I told him and myself that I would always respect him . I would leave before I would cheat.

raegan1221
by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:26 PM
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Im sorry you're in that situation. No, I would never cheat and break my vows. I would seek counseling.
hudson.maggie
by on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:27 PM
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No.

Have you talked to him about the lack of sex? Has he seen a dr?
veggiemom474
by Member on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:31 PM
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No way! Tho I do know that feeling from  my previous marraige. I think it's more about feeling desired and craving for affection. You really need to go to counseling. A sexless relationship is usually lacking many other things as well. 

Beautiful31mom
by on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:31 PM

No. 

Raeann11
by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:33 PM

No way would I do that. I would talk with my hubby on what is going on and we would work things out.

IAMmomtotrips
by Bronze Member on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:35 PM
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Has he had his testosterone levels checked? My DH went through the no sex drive a few years ago and it turned out his testosterone was horrible low. He gets shots now every other week and life is so much better!
RheaF
by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:40 PM
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 NO!!! I have more respect for my husband, our children, and myself than that. I would be honest and talk to my husband about the lack of sex. Find out what the problem is and then work together to fix it.

Think of it this way, how would you feel if he was thinking about cheating on you just because you guys hit a dry spell?

ReadWriteLuv
by Casey on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:41 PM
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No. That is incredibly disrespectful. I'd leave before I'd cheat.
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