My ex Dh and I agreed when we split up that he would have the kids every weekend.At the time it worked out fine but after a while he met someone else and decided that every third weekend they would stay home of course i didnt mind because i love spending time with my kids. So now more than a year later he tells me that he wants to go back to having them every weekend ( i was heartbroken) which he has every right to and i didnt fight him on it or say anything. he usually takes them friday night but the divorce papers say he gets them saturday morning so i decided that if i dont get them on the weekends anymore that i want to have friday nights. he thinks im being vindictive and says the weekends are his time to give and take away if he wants but i dont think thats good for the kids. He also gets them for thanksgiving this year and he asked me if he can have them the friday after and i said i dont know what our plan is for that day so he got mad and said we should make plans around the kids not around when my family comes up. I don't think its his place to say that to me friday is my day and if i want the kids to spend it with my family thats up to me. I want us to get along but i think he needs to back off he gets them more than most dads that dont have full custody. How should i handle this cause its really stressing me out? He also texts me non stop when he doesnt get his way and says things that he knows will piss me off.
on Oct. 7, 2013 at 1:24 AM