have kind of a problem my husband and i had our best friends in mind for the god parents. i grew up with her and i know she will be there and he picked her bf as god father. well now they have broken up and it looks like they wont be getting back together its been about a month since they broke up i'm fine with picking someone else for the job cause i was never really happy with his choice but i said ok no problem hes your best friend. but now he doesn't know if he wants him to be the gf cause he isn't sure if he is going to stick around he has been distant since brake up. i told him i'd rather have family but at the end its his choice. what should i just put foot down and say just pick family or give it some more time see if he comes around. either way i told him by the time i have the baby he needs to make a choice.