I love dh & love having sex. But lately I get turned off easily right before things happen. I know some will argue that he is being responsible. I'm not saying its wrong, just that it turns me off. We used to have a little foreplay, sex, hold each other close for a little while. But since we had ds 3 months ago dh is worried about getting pregnant. So before sex he grabs a condom. It literally turns me off to having sex. I hate the feel of condoms to begin with. I hate that we can't just go at it & enjoy. And I hate that dh jumps up as soon as he done to rush to the bathroom. No more holding each other like we used. I literally want to roll over & forget about having sex. I've tried to not let it bother me but I miss how things used to be when we didn't use condoms.
Am I the only one who gets turned off by them?
on Nov. 3, 2013 at 7:37 AM