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Would you ever consider THIS?

Posted by on Nov. 5, 2013 at 4:23 PM
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 My sister is desperate to have another baby but her husband thinks the two they have are more than enough. She's considering quitting her birth control pills without telling him and just letting nature take its course, and I think that's heading down a dangerous path...

Would you even think about doing something like this?



by on Nov. 5, 2013 at 4:23 PM
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Hadadat
by on Nov. 5, 2013 at 4:26 PM
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No. Just....no. I couldn't. My husband would feel so hurt and lose trust in me and our relationship if this were to happen and a pregnancy were to come of it. A marriage is about honesty and communication and trust. This breaks all of that.

furbabymum
by Gold Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 4:26 PM
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 If I wanted to be a despicable human being I would do that.

That said the man is an idiot if he doesn't get a vasectomy. My sister has done this to her DH, TWICE. She wants more, he never wanted one. I figure at this point if he doesn't get it snipped he's getting what he deserves.

mommie2madison
by Bronze Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 4:33 PM
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Sadly, I have thought about that, and did it, hence I have my oldest daughter.  It's not that her father didn't want kids, I just decided I did and made the decision for both of us.  It was wrong of me - I know that now.  Wouldn't change it for the world though even though her father & I are divorced.  Deceiving someone is wrong - to do so to someone who trusts you, who you supposedly love - even more wrong.

Krysden
by Platinum Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 5:02 PM

Absolutely NOT! 

Smoore922
by Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 5:12 PM

 Thats messed up...

LadyBast
by Brenda on Nov. 5, 2013 at 5:17 PM
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Not just no but hell no that is a mutual decision!

MrsApple
by Silver Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 5:18 PM

I would never consider tricking my husband in to more kids.That's wrong in so many ways.

MagicTemptation
by Christina on Nov. 5, 2013 at 6:07 PM
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 That would make her a very ugly human being.

katiebug840204
by Bronze Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 6:20 PM
Nope. Would never so it.
noelgray
by Member on Nov. 5, 2013 at 6:23 PM

No, I would not. I will not force my husband into something he isn't on board with.

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