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Porn and Husband

Posted by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:12 PM
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My husbands like to watch porn when I am not home and when we have sex. I dont like when he watches it. He asks if it bugs me and i say no but it really does. I dont want him to get mad becuase i tell him i dont want to watch it. I know i dont have the body I used to after having 2 kids. I just am not interested in him. I dont want sex or anything from him just a massage. I know i get depressed and maybe that is what it is. I feel like we dont know eachother at all. Even if we have been together for 5 years and amrried for 3 years. But he dont want me to be put on meds for it. I know smoking cigarettes helps, but he dont want me to do that either. I need Advice on what to do.

by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:12 PM
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furbabymum
by Gold Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:17 PM

 Well you need help. At least a good psychologist. Also, I don't care what he wants you to do, you do what you have to do to feel better. He should support you in that.

Also, He makes you watch porn??

quadqueen08
by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:19 PM

He asks me and i say yes i dont want him to get mad or something

 

furbabymum
by Gold Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:23 PM

 So what would happen if he got mad. Would he hit you?

Quoting quadqueen08:

He asks me and i say yes i dont want him to get mad or something

 

 

Beautiful31mom
by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:24 PM
My husband does not watch porn. But if he did and it bothered me I would tell him.
quadqueen08
by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:25 PM

No he never does anything like that. I cant remember but he gets mad I have hard time telling him my feelings to his face writing them down no problem and giving him a letter but he wants me to talk and i cant about this to him the porn

 

quadqueen08
by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:26 PM

I wish i could but in a letter i could

 

 

furbabymum
by Gold Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:27 PM

 I'm just not understanding this. You can't talk to him at all about this? Why not?? Is this your hangup or will he do something bad????

Counseling!!!!!!!!!

Quoting quadqueen08:

No he never does anything like that. I cant remember but he gets mad I have hard time telling him my feelings to his face writing them down no problem and giving him a letter but he wants me to talk and i cant about this to him the porn

 

 

quadqueen08
by on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:29 PM

I am going to couseling no he wont do something bad i just have hard time talking to him about anything

 

furbabymum
by Gold Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:30 PM
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 Well what kind of relationship could you possibly have if you can't talk to him?? Baffling. Communication is the #1 most important thing in a marriage. So long as you can communicate you can solve most everything.

Quoting quadqueen08:

I am going to couseling no he wont do something bad i just have hard time talking to him about anything

 

 

jenesis509
by Member on Nov. 7, 2013 at 6:31 PM

ok for the porn issues talk to him i dont mind my husband watching it but its a big no durring sex. sex is something belween us not his videos maybe if you compromise something like that itll be better.

for your dpression get some help dont matter if he wants you on meds or not gget help its your health that needs it.

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