So my Boyfriend I would say is not the stereotypical male that thinks about sex all the time. He's always had a lower sex drive than myself. But lately (since our daughter was born 9 months ago) he has had a very low sex drive. Lower than normal. I haven't even felt that connection lately. Not as many kisses and hugs. And the most he was into sex was when he was gone for a week and when he got back. Not going to lie.. we've had sex 1 time in 3 months. I know that a new baby and our first is tiring but I've tried putting the effort in and not getting anything in return. And sometimes the paranoia sets in. We've been together for almost 4 1/2 years and I would never doubt his faithfulness. But sometimes I worry that I'm not enough anymore. I've lost all baby weight and some and just don't feel like I'm attactive to him.