My bf and I have been dating for over a year and lately we have been fighting a lot. And majority of the time it's about trust and communication. The fact that we don't have very much in our relationship. My bf doesn't approve of the fact that I have guy friends and I still text them from time to time. I don't really like the fact that he doesn't seem to trust me. I have been friends with one of my guy friends for over 10 years and we are both in relationships. My bf claims that I wouldn't like it if he went to lunch with some of his girl friends. But I really don't think I would mind. He has talked about a couple of his girl friends and I think they sound like great girls and have encouraged that he hang out with them because he doesn't really have too many friends and I think it would be good for him to do his own thing from time to time. I just really feel like he doesn't trust me though. If he sees me talking to another guy or looking in another guy's direction, he gets jealous and claims I was flirting with them or that there was more to the situation. I love my bf a lot and I love how much we have in common but this constant doubting and questioning of my actions is wearing me down. I think my bf has a lot of trust issues since he has been cheated on a lot in the past. Which I totally understand how this can affect someone's ability to trust others. But I am probably the most honest person out there and it hurts that he is constantly doubting my love for him. Has anyone else been in this kind of situation? Were you able to fix it? We have gone to counseling a couple of times and that seems to work. But in the back of my mind, I just wonder if I just need to accept the fact that this is who he is and accept that this is not something I can really handle for the rest of my life. Or do I keep trying to prove to him that he is a great guy and a great person so his self-esteem gets better and we can move forward?