I really don't even know where to start. I feel like my marriage is just a mess. One day were happy and i love him more than anything and the next i feel like id be so much better off without him. I know all marriages have ups and downs, but sometimes i really feel 'is it worth it' when every day its always something. We don't communicate well, he doesn't deal well with me being a very emotional person, i do take things to personally. when we fight he says the most hurtful things, i know its just in the heat of the moment but i can't help but feel there is some serious to it. I don't know if i even have a question for you guys or more just need to vent. How do you be a team with someone who isn't on the same page as you. What is important to me isn't to him and visa versa. We fight over money(im a stay at home mom now), and that gets used against me from time to time, we fight over family cause his is so different from mine, fight over sleep, spare time, hobbies, what we do on the weekends. We never solve anything cause we don't agree. Im sick of living on this marriage that has so many emotional ups and downs! I just want to be happy for more than one day at a time. We are both 29 and have a 16 month old son, have been together almost 4yrs and married for 2.