I don't know what to do or think. My dh has been getting very close with a female coworker. She texts him ALL the time, all hours. I've been as open and accepting as I can, but for a while now, we have not been getting along. I get the cranky, non happy man. But as soon as she texts him or he sees her, he is all smiles and happy. I've explained how it makes me feel, but he just gets offensive and gets mad at me. I have never told him I wanted him to stop talking to her. I am worried though because she has been with another man who was attached. That was a very rocky relationship, and she shared every detail to my dh. That relationship ended in an unfortunate way, suicide. And she has been leaning on my dh since. One night she texted him at 2:30 in the morning asking him to call her. He did, she was drunk and crying and he offered to go pick her up and take her home. Luckily she said no. I was pissed, and he got mad at me because of it. Since then, I'm not allowed to say anything about it. She texts, and texts, and texts. And he told me he tells her about our problems. Right now we are fighting because he wanted to stay up and text with her. This started at 1:30am. In one breath he understands, and will admit he wouldn't like me to be as close to another man, the next, I'm a bitch because I don't like that she texts all the time.
As an extra note, we started dating in highschool and have been together for 20 years.
on Dec. 17, 2013 at 2:17 AM