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Sex and Intimacy After the Baby Arrives

Posted by on Dec. 18, 2013 at 7:26 PM
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I have seen a lot of you asking about sex after kids...

Here is a link you should read, I think it may help!

Click: http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/12/16/restarting-desire-afterward/?_r=0

by on Dec. 18, 2013 at 7:26 PM
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committed4ever
by Bronze Member on Dec. 18, 2013 at 7:42 PM

I was torn between fear of pain and wanting the closeness of sex. But I knew we would resume as soon as the OB/GYN gave the okay after the 6 weeks.  DH was very slow and gentle but it really was no need.  I think the fact that my little peant was under 5 lb have a lot to do with it.

LadyBast
by Brenda on Dec. 19, 2013 at 7:11 PM

I think it was painful the first time again after having a child. But I am glad it got better!

MustBNapTime
by on Dec. 19, 2013 at 7:47 PM

I remember the first time after having #1. We did start off a bit slow, but then things picked up. It was amazing... From giving natural birth I really felt great & strong about being a woman. Its hard to explain... I also felt a closer bond to my dh after giving birth to our child.

ArmyWife112908
by Bronze Member on Dec. 19, 2013 at 9:16 PM
It was uncomfortable but I remember the orgasm was amazing especially since when i was pregnant i had a hard time coming.
OHgirlinCA
by Silver Member on Dec. 19, 2013 at 9:18 PM
I didn't have any problems having sex after giving birth and our sex life didn't change.
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Tiredmom53
by Member on Dec. 19, 2013 at 9:19 PM

So long ago I forgot!

LadyBast
by Brenda on Dec. 20, 2013 at 10:41 AM

LOL same here Carol I have to agree with you and it has been longer for me, I have one up on you on this one ONLY :)  Hugs my friend...

Quoting Tiredmom53:

So long ago I forgot!


danigirlglow
by on Dec. 20, 2013 at 10:46 AM
I've never had any problems having sex with my husband post deliversy.
Tiredmom53
by Member on Dec. 20, 2013 at 10:47 AM

You are right on that one Brenda since Matt was a whoops!

Quoting LadyBast:

LOL same here Carol I have to agree with you and it has been longer for me, I have one up on you on this one ONLY :)  Hugs my friend...

Quoting Tiredmom53:

So long ago I forgot!



LadyBast
by Brenda on Dec. 20, 2013 at 4:24 PM

So was Ash but she is a bit older :)  Sucks getting older Carol :) 

Quoting Tiredmom53:

You are right on that one Brenda since Matt was a whoops!

Quoting LadyBast:

LOL same here Carol I have to agree with you and it has been longer for me, I have one up on you on this one ONLY :)  Hugs my friend...

Quoting Tiredmom53:

So long ago I forgot!




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