SO has said some things recently that were really hurtful, and I don't think he realizes it, and I know I'm overreacting because of being pregnant, but I don't know how to talk to him about it. Or if I even should. I just feel like I am so far down on his priority list, like he wants to be with me, but he wouldn't really be all that upset if he wasn't either.
He just said something really hurtful, and I don't know if maybe I should just kick him out. He works 2 hours away from home, went down there today just to get his check, and he bumped into a pole and messed up the muffler on his car. So I asked him if he was coming home after he got it fixed. And he sarcastically said no he was gonna go party with his friend all night (he's not, he's coming home). So I sarcastically said that's fine, go spend all the money and I'll go sell all your stuff that's at home so that we can still pay the bills. He was like would you really do that? And I said yeah, wouldn't you do the same if I spent all our money partying?
He said no. He said that he would just leave me. That he'd rather me leave him if he did that than sell his stuff, because it took him a long time to get it and he's not just gonna have some girl take it away.
Really? He would rather have "stuff" than me? Pregnant crazy overreacting me wants to just put his "stuff" in the driveway and tell him where he can shove it. But reasonable me wants advice on how to talk to him and tell him that was hurtful in a way that won't make him angry. What would y'all do?