So, Im pretty sure I am going to follow through with getting a trial separation from my husband. We have been together for almost 5 years and we have only been married for 8months. Im tired of feeling like the only one who does anything for our relationship.
I have been having some very messed up thoughts run through my head the last couple months, and I begged him, help me. Dont let me go through it alone, and he refused to even acknowledge me about it. And only now, after almost 3months does he show any interest about it, because I told him I was done.
Ive tried to show him that I need his attention. Like, any kind of attention. He doesnt talk to me, he doesnt barely make an actual effort in anything.
We have a 1yr old, we just uprooted ourselves and moved to a completely different state and completely made our lives about our family together, and now, i just cant fucking do it by myself anymore. He doesnt make an effort at anything at all anymore, really, and all the two of us do is work, and be home with Emma. It was fine up until there honestly no connection between us anymore. We never really had sex anymore, either. I mean, it was to get it over with and thats it. (5minutes, ladies.)
God, I love my husband with my entire heart. I dont want our marriage to fall apart. I cant lose him, but I am tired of feeling like im the only one in the relationship. I need to know that there is still a relationship between us anymore.
Ive never been able to follow through with what Ive "threatened" him with before. I need him to know Im completely serious...
Please help me...what am I supposed to do?