My husband and I have been married for almost 7 1/2 years known each other for 9 years. The first yr or so was great. We had a healthy relationship, took holidays together and enjoyed each others company. However the first yr of our marriage i started to notice a few little things. Such as: he would wait by his car for me to come home and question why i was late and who i was with, screen my phone calls, check my history on the computer and then he started to get very sarcastic towards my family. I just tried to ignore it all until it stared to get worse. He would argue about everything and be so mean to me.
I've threatened to leave so many times i have lost count. He has been married twice before, has four grown sons and he is a grandparent at 45 yrs old and has nothing to do with any of them. I no longer question him about his actions with his family as it always ends up with him arugeing about it.
We have now moved to Scotland (away from England) and i am on the verge of leaving him for good yet he doesn't know my family is driving up in a few days to help me move all my belongings and my dog. I'm scared. I don't know how he is going to react as he has such a terrible temper on him. He constantly calls me names, accuses me of having an affair, i'm not allowed to watch my own tv programs as he gets mad, he needs to know my whereabouts all the time and i hate having sex with him.
I don't know what to do and feel so alone.