My hubby and I have been married almost a year and I'm currently 3 months pregnant. Right now I am working full time. He makes enough money that I don't even have to work, I just choose to. We've been discussing whether or not I will go back to work after I have the baby. He's really wanting me to stay home but I saw myself going back to work. In a way I'd like to stay home. I don't want to miss out on some of those precious moments with the baby, plus its hard to trust anyone. Our closest family is two hours away so we would have to find a good daycare. The problem for me is giving up that independence. In my previous marriage I stayed home with our boys and when it fell apart I was just lost. No job, didnt know what I was going to do. I had to work hard to get where I am. Now here I am again looking at the possibility of being in the same situation. I love him more than anything and I know we have a great marriage. He's a hard worker and I appreciate him so much. This is probably just my insecurity. Has anyone else gone through this?
on Feb. 9, 2014 at 3:48 PM