DH and I hit a really bad patch a week or two ago. He suffers from a mental illness and had stopped treatment and refused to go back. His paranoia caused him to suspect really off-the-wall things and he was very irrational and insulting and lying to anyone who would listen and feed into his cycle (and there are some real drama vampires in his world who lap that nonesense up).
Anyway, it was a rough two days and the time since then has been challenging and draining, getting legal protections in place and re-approaching treatment. That said, we still have sex. We still enjoy each other.
The counselor says it's totally normal (well that's a relief since I quite enjoy it!). One of my good friends thinks it's weird and says she never has sex when she's mad. Then againm I guess I'm not mad. I'm just worried about him.