So my husband will do something out of wack that will make me question his fidelity then he will give me the passwords to all of his stuff like facebook, google, etc. Well once he notices I have actually looked at something of his he will go to work and change his password and ask why I need to look at his things.
I tell him the truth about how I feel. "If you don't want me to look at your stuff stop giving me reasons to feel like i need to.
Edited for you ladies who don't seem to understand the first sentence.
My husband has had online conversations with an Ex stating how he will always be hers...She wished it was her walking down the isle.....then he was talking to a coworker and said he would screw some lady that was at his job.....Numerous things that make me question him. So to me when he gave me his password and vowed he would not do those things again I thought all of that was behind us. Then all of a sudden one day he doesn't want me to have access to anything and decides to change his password again which makes me think something is up. Normally when he is being secretive something is up.
And....To the ladies who are saying they have NEVER gone through there spouses emails or Facebook stop lying. We all wonder what they do at times. When I intially went through his facebook it was to add new pictures of our family because he had pictures of only himself on his profile. That's when I started to wonder why and went through his messages and saw the ex and the conversation that they had. It's not that I just like to dig and dig for no apparant reason. In what marriage do you need secrets???? I have none but it seems he has many as the time goes on.