:/ my DH never compliments me. I have to basically fish for compliments and ask the questions "how do I look?" "Do I look okay?" I flat out asked him if I am attractive while I was at work, his immediate reaction was "why? Everyone you work with is old". I am really depressed and stressed over this. And also, I never get the "you're beautiful" or anything like that. I get "pretty" and I've only gotten that lame compliment 3 times in our entire relationship of several years!!! I have turned to flirting with a guy at my work to help me feel better. :(( it's nice to feel attractive and my husband doesn't understand that I need to know that every now and then to keep from feeling ugly.