Hello, I am very sad and probably borderline depressed. Met my STBEH when I was 14 he was 16 we got married when I was 20, we was married 13 years and had 3 children. We are now separated since July 13 and he does not want to work on our marriage he wants a divorce. We have a lot of problems, but I love him and my family and think that we should try to save our marriage, I am exhausted because I can't do this by myself. I'm thinking I should just give up!!