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What would you do?

Posted by on Apr. 12, 2014 at 6:58 PM
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I recently found out that my husband has be chatting with and flirting with several different women online. I don't know what to think about this is it something I bring up to him or just let it go. What would you do if it was your husband and he was doing the same thing?



Update*
So I did bring it up with him and we had a long talk about what was going on and I really don't know what to say but he said he didn't realize what he was doing and would stop. I really don't know how to feel or what to think about that.
by on Apr. 12, 2014 at 6:58 PM
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indymom72
by Bronze Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 6:59 PM

I would confront him and then we would seek counseling to find out what was wrong in the marriage that he felt he needed to do it in the first place.

owl0210
by Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 7:11 PM
I would not let it go. Confront him for sure. Has he met them in person?
rocamom
by New Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 7:14 PM
I would confront him. Unless you don't care if he continues to do it.
JulietteM23
by Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 7:16 PM
I'd definitely confront him
Verrine
by Bronze Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 7:22 PM

Unless it doesn't bother you and him seeking emotional support and then sex elsewhere would be ok? 

Quoting indymom72:

I would confront him and then we would seek counseling to find out what was wrong in the marriage that he felt he needed to do it in the first place.

The_Doodle
by Bronze Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 7:23 PM

You should bring it up to him...that is the first stage of him cheating on you. Ignore it now and it will get worse.

Hottmomma607
by Trica on Apr. 12, 2014 at 7:37 PM
Let it go??
No I would not. Communication is best if you communicate.
3xangel
by Bronze Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 7:37 PM


Quoting rocamom: I would confront him. Unless you don't care if he continues to do it.
BonitaM
by Ruby Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 7:42 PM

Definitely wouldn't let it go.  We'd have a very long talk.

Fayanne
by Gold Member on Apr. 12, 2014 at 7:58 PM
Why would you just let this go???
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