I feel horrible even posting this publicly, but at the same time I'm also very frustrated. So here it is...
My DH cannot last at all during sex. I'm talking literally 5 pumps or so and he comes. This has been going on for 6+ years. Of course he tries his hardest to please me in other ways, like more foreplay, we've added toys, etc. Yes, toys are fun sometimes but I'll be honest--I want actual, real f**king too! And for more than 10 seconds! It's to the point that I actually don't even want to bother most nights because it takes longer for me to undress than the penetration lasts.
I feel like I can't say anything anymore because we've talked about it already a lot in the past and nothing changes. I don't want to hurt his feelings and make him even more sensitive about it. He went to a doctor several years ago (when he got sick of me trying to gently suggest it). The doctor wasn't very concerned, saying it's very common. But he gave DH an rx for Levitra.....it didn't work.
So here we are, years later, still in the same boat. He knows I get frustrated but I no longer say anything anymore.
I know ppl will ask so I will mention: he is only 36, he's not obese(he's about 20 lbs overweight), doesn't smoke, and he's healthy. I guess I just need to talk to you ladies bc there's really nothing else I can do. =(