Over the years, I've tried not to let it bother me but this year it's started early and it's bugging me. See, DH has this habit of saying we don't have any "extra" money when my birthday rolls around or when Mother's Day comes , but by the time Father's Day gets here or when his birthday comes, we suddenly have TONS of money for him to blow on a TV or whatever it is he wants.
Does your SO act like it's a hardship to buy things for you, but that money's no object when it comes to buying things for himself?
Some beach, somewhere
There's a big umbrella casting shade over an empty chair...