Do you genuinely like your inlaws and have a good relationship with them, or do you dislike them intensely? if you don't like them, how does it affect your relationship with your husband/SO?
I have very uninvolved inlaws. They are *generally* harmless, very simple people. I used to love his mom when I was younger but after we got married she seemed to struggle with me. She is very emotionally manipulative and she taught her 3 kids to cry and whine to get there own way (thankfully my husband has stopped this heinous behaviour) and she knows that I don't like that sort of emotional carry-on. My SIL hates me and has done so since I was first introduced to her. She has never had a partner and still lives at home and she is very jealous of my husband. MIL always takes SIL's side over everyone and I believe this is why MIL is iffy with me.
We actually only see MIL and FIL every 3-4 months and the SIL isn't welcome at our home (hubs hates her) so they are not really involved in our lives and our nearly 3 year old daughter doesn't even know who they are!
So all in all how are your inlaw relations?