I'm at a turning point and don't know which direction to go?
Hello all, I need some advice on where to go with my relationship. We have been friends for 10 years and together for 3. I have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship and a 2 year old daughter with my fiancee. I love him, but I feel like we are in 2 different places in our lives. I fall asleep next to him feeling alone often. I try to express myself and my feelings to him, and all it does is blow up into an argument. He is extremely immature and self centered. He has a ridiculous sense of entitlement from other people. He loves both of the children very much, his heart is in the right place, but his head is not. I am currently working towards building a career for myself. I take care of all of the bills, if not financially, I handle the doings of it. I keep track of our bank accounts. Recently, his grandmother passed away, leaving his father to handle her estate. His father is worse than he is with finances and accomplishing tasks. I tried to use this as an example to stress the importance of why he needs to learn how to do these things, and he still hasn't taken initiative to do ANYTHING! I had to book his flight and his father's hotel to get home! I have to walk him step by step through everything or do it myself. He has called me at work because he can't find a pair of his underwear! I am at my wits end. I love him but I can't handle his immaturity any more. I do not want to just throw away our relationship for the sake of our children and my love for him, but its to the point I am miserable and attracted to other men. I would never act on my thoughts but it really bothers me things have gotten to this point. What do I do? Walk away or try to fix things?