this post could be a lot longer, but i'm gonna boil it down to a question or two:
--on a day off (well, the night before a day off), does your significant other drink by themselves? with you? at a bar? or, are YOU the drinker?
--if so, why? and are you okay with your significant other doing so?
i have this problem with my boyfriend (he's the one drinking), so, i'd like to hear some perspectives on this topic. and just f.y.i: my personal stance on this is NO DRINKING. i can't stand it. it annoys me and i want absolutely nothing to do with him on his night off since he does this---so after baby goes down for the night, i head into our bedroom and shut the door and that's where i stay until i fall asleep. frankly, i don't know what else to do other than pop open a beer myself, but i really don't want to!!