I ask because this past weekend my DH went camping with three of his friends (two are married) and my DH sent me a text saying the guys want to go to a strip club are you ok with me going. We had talked about this before and he knew that I didn't want him to go and I reminded him of how I felt. Then he said should I just go and not tell you and I said only if you want a divorce. I felt he was saying that he shoulda just lied to me and I questioned my trust in him. They didn't wind up going but I was still pissed about the conversation we had. And now I don't trust those friends around him. What do you think of my situation?