Every relationship I have been in I have been cheated on or left for someone in the past or someone that they just wanted to leave for. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year on the 23rd. Everything was perfect but my man is so honest he will let me know everything. So he lets me know that its this woman that he has basically been talking to and I guess he is attracted to her cause she has a big butt(I have never seen her) but the past few days I found out that she does have his phone number and when I asked him he said she calls him but he always tells her that he is to busy to talk which I am not falling for. I work monday thru friday and I am mainly a home body so if he was cheating with her I wouldn't know.. Should I want to leave him? He says he hasn't had sex with her but I really don't care I have never been able to be in a relationship without wondering if my man is cheating on me and I am tired of it I wish I could just have a man that I knew wasn't going to cheat on me. I am insecure sometimes but then again I know I could always find someone but I don't know how I will trust him like I once did I just thought he was different when we first met. He always told me that even if he did cheat its only a lust thing and that he would never leave me for anyone. I guess cause we handle bills good and because I have a good head on my shoulders with school and everything.