Going into this conversation, I thought we could work through it with marriage counseling, which he immediately said he wouldn't go to.
Then, I asked about the vasectomy reversal thing. He said he doesn't want anymore kids. Although, I had that feeling, based on his actions and things he's said, it was still a hard blow.
I asked him when he realized this, and he said it was before we moved across the country. I asked him if he understood that this was a deal-breaker for me. He said that he can't believe that I'm willing to base our marriage on a kid.
We argued about it, and how we discussed and agreed upon the reversal, and how he knew this would happen.
In the end, we decided that a divorce is imminent, but we just moved across the country and signed a year lease, so we're going to take the next month and make a plan for the split... who's moving out, who's taking what, when to tell everyone, who sd is staying with.
I am still in shock. I mean, I knew this was coming, but it doesn't make it any easier. The ink isn't even dry on the marriage license, and I just changed my name 2 months ago...