I would not, and have not, stayed because of the kids. It does them no good to see a parent unhappy.
No I would find a way with family or whatever to get out!
You need to talk to your husband. If he's truly only with you for the kids, you need to get a job and move on. I, however, will always fight for my marriage. But that's just me.
If you have family and you will be ok.....If you dont than you need to take steps to preprare your self so you can leave !
Key word in that was "feel like". I would ask him if he is only with me because of the kids. If he said yes, I would most definitely move on. I have a degree and a property in FL I could move into and easily afford payments by going back to my old job.
I would talk to DH first and be clear if that's the only reason he's with me and if there's no way to change the way he feels.....if it truly is and he doesn't want to try I'd start making plans to leave.
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